It's also interesting looking at how we React to clothing, It always speaks to me about how we are programmed with images where we have these specific contrived ideas based in Polarity friction of what is apparently "Good" and "Bad" clothing to wear. Or that we have to be a "certain way" because we are wearing certain Clothes - like when you look at a Policeman and how he will be like his normal Self at home with his family, yet when he puts on the police clothes they become the Police System itself as an Entity Acting completely differently as if they are a different person. Like this Clothing Possession Alter-Ego Clark Kent "Metamorphosis" into Superman point.
Or how we Use Clothing to be Dishonest and Self-Dishonest where we hide certain parts of our body from others, because we hide from Facing our own Self-Inadequacies about specific parts of our bodies design where rather then Self-Honesty and Self-Corrective application, the solution apparently is to just accept the reactions about your body and then cover what you deem to be the most "disgusting" or "shameful" parts of your body so others can't see it and deem certain outfits as "not being right" for your Feelings and your Definition of yourself which is not a Solution that is Best.
Are we understanding within all this that no matter what clothing you wear, when you remove all clothes, we are all just Lifeforms? All just Humans of various shapes and sizes underneath the clothes we wear, where our Body tells the True Story of what we have Lived through and what we Accept and Allow for Ourselves.
Clothes has come up a bit this week, my partner for example mentioned she felt over dressed yesterday as we went to go out with some friends for our Birthdays. Then the day before a young guy I booked to come into my office for an interview for TechnoTutor, asked me if he should wear a Suit. I Supported my Partner reminding her she looked Fantastic and the young guy I explained that clothing can impact how we view ourselves and when it comes to other people if you are Financially able to Dress Well generally or at least for Major Events/Celebrations, people will think one of two things when they look at you - he is going somewhere Better or he has just come from somewhere Better and thus will adjust their behavior around you to Incorporate more Respect. This is a Fundamental reason why Government officials wear suits, why Bankers wear suits, Business owners etc. I have lost count of all the situations in Life where I was treated Well or an Opportunity came up purely because I was Well Dressed as Stupid as that sounds.
Then you see how the system presents either looking Great or looking Shit as the apparent only options. There has even been an increase in fashion that I have noticed before where many outfits will try to look like Shit, as if its cool to look like Shit. I mean go and ask a Really Poor person if they feel Good and Cool wearing rags that hang off their body and do not support them effectively in Any weather. The fact that we have any Humans on Earth wearing ineffective clothes to support the Body and our expression as Life is Completely Unacceptable.
So you can see when you look closely in your own Life and in the Lives of Every Human that there is many Moments of Confusing, Fucked up and Abusive behavior we have Allowed in relation to Clothes. One example from My Life is for Years I literally would not wear shorts Ever, purely because I had all these reactions to how Skinny I thought my legs looked, when nobody else really ever gave me a valid reason to believe that. So basically as long as I had long trousers to wear I would Feel Good I have corrected these Reactions that I noticed early in process, yet I will still have to check myself because there will still be occasional moments where I will still have the odd Fear based thought come up around my legs in shorts lol.
We have to be Honest with ourselves and Clear about our reactions to Clothing, to apply Common Sense in All Ways with Clothing - Comfort and Support of the Body must always be the first and most important point, but be Aware and Courteous to others where possible, understand that just like the words we speak, the clothes we wear impacts others around us. We cannot cater to peoples feelings, and yes we should never Blame others and take full Responsibility for our own Reactions - but we also cannot Completely Abdicate Responsibility to others either, because You are Me in Another Life so I'm Also Responsible for You as Me.
So if I tell someone to go Fuck themselves I have to understand that those Words do not Support the person I'm speaking with to not React - because directing the Words "Go Fuck yourself" at someone is still me trying to Elicit and Impulse Reactions in others - same with Clothing so if I look like the idea of "Shit" I have to be Aware that people will Likely React to that and Avoid interaction with Me. It should not be this way in a world that's Best for All but Currently Humans are automatically Programmed to treat people in Expensive looking clothes Better than those in Cheap looking clothes so Common Sense - perhaps don't walk into your next Job interview in a dirty looking cheap outfit and expect to get the job.Let's create a system where Everyone has the Best clothes to live in, No more Clothing ideas where you can Ignore those who don't have the "Clothing Privilege" You Do while Claiming Enlightenment, Compounding the Fucked Up World as it is. Now this doesn't mean all having the same looking clothes, its cool that we can all have our own unique Expression in that - but not at the Expense of Another, so lets Build a World where there are No More Humans going without Effective Clothing Support Anywhere on Earth Ever Again.



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