"The Beautiful People" – Self Deception and Ego

So I am going to give some perspective on how this following quote is complete self-deception, and simply feeds into ego – “The most beautiful people we have known are those who have known struggle, known loss, and have found their way out of the depths. These people have an appreciation, a sensitivity and understanding of life that fills them with compassion, gentleness and a deep loving concern. Beautiful people do not just happen~ Elizabeth Kubler Ross~”

So let’s slow down and look at this statement in closer detail in the scope of self-honesty. So immediately when I read the words “the most beautiful people” it’s already clear to me before I read any further, that the writer of this quote misunderstands the point that all humans as any beings in reality are equal as life. Because to imply that there are some people that are “more beautiful” then others is to say that some humans have more value than others, which is clear inequality as separation, exactly the same as what the modelling industry suggests which is that if you fit societies idea of “beautiful” then you have apparently more value, being “more beautiful” then others, which is dishonesty.    

Then the writer goes on to say – “the most beautiful people we have known are those who have known struggle, known loss, and found their way out of the depths.” Now this statement is really fucked up, because it implies that if you have struggled in life in anyway such as having no money as a negative for instance, but then if you have found a way to get to riches as the positive through any means no matter if its abuse – then apparently you have more value than any other human, because you pulled yourself out of negative into positive, from darkness to light feeding into polarity as separation. And this would then mean that anyone that reads this statement that has lived the definition of a hard life, or beliefs they have had a hard life will immediately have their ego massaged by the statement, and will likely then begin to believe that they are “more beautiful” then those that have not lived a hard life. That point of feeling special because of living a life of struggle, which then In fact is justifying the abuse the person incurred in “living a life” of struggle, because it feeds into that belief that - “my life made me who I am, I pulled through the struggles and look at me now” it’s like saying if your being abused don’t worry its ok because if you pull through then you will be a “more beautiful” person, and then you will thank the fact that you were abused lol - Very fucked up indeed.

And thus this Idea can then deceive a person who defines their own life as a “hard life” into purposely attacking someone who they perceive has lived an “easy life”, because they “don’t know the things I’ve seen” so therefore “I deserve the riches more than they do because I’ve had to struggle for it” “I’m harder than they are, they could never handle the stuff I’ve handled”. All Self-deception as ego, which also conditions people to believe that if you have struggled in life then riches are more likely to attract to you because you apparently deserve it more because you’re “more special” then someone that didn’t struggle. Which is just not how this reality works, because majority of people that struggle in poverty will never make a lot of money, because of having no idea how to accumulate it effectively, and having no support for education and the highest paid jobs, but if your family already has a lot of money, then you will make money 99.9% of the time, obviously. 

Also to say that the “most beautiful people are those that have known loss” is ridiculous Self-deception because everybody has lost something, it’s not just a special group of “beautiful people” that know about loss, and I mean nobody really owns anything, we don’t even own our own breath and without exception everybody will die.

Then the writer goes on to say – “These people have an appreciation, a sensitivity and understanding of life that fills them with compassion, gentleness and a deep loving concern. Beautiful people do not just happen”. First of all this statement is implying that we humans have to be abused before we can “appreciate and understand” the “full extent” of life, that we have to be abused in order to be compassionate and gentle, which again is justifying abuse because after all according to this writer “beautiful people don’t just happen”.  However in self-honesty we can clearly see that the cause of being sensitive, understanding life, being compassionate and gentle has nothing to do with being abused, it is simply a physical understanding of the words lived by self in self-honesty. 

Also implying that we have to “understand life” according to being filled with “deep” emotions or knowledge and information as memory of being abused is deception. Because understanding life doesn’t “fill us” with anything, life is simplistic here as this breathe as the physical, it has nothing to do with being filled with memories or being possessed by emotions.

Also this statement is attempting to say that people that have struggled and been abused a lot will be “more gentle” and have a deeper “loving concern” then someone who hasn’t struggled and been abused. In my experience people that have struggled and been abused a lot in life certainly aren’t “more gentle” or having more of a “loving concern” for others. Because most that “get out of the depths” have usually done so through abuse, it is clear that our environment programs us; the abused most of the time become the abusers so that instead of experiencing helplessness the abused can now become the position of power as the abuser. The clearest proof of this in my experience is criminals, because the most ruthless gangsters will majority of the time have grown up in an extremely abusive environment not to grow up and become a more “caring”, “loving” “gentle” person, but instead to grow into an absolute monstrous demonic abuser because all they have ever known is how harming people can get you a feeling of power as respect through fear.   

So it’s cool to expose the deception in this statement, because I myself once held a belief that any point of “struggle” in my life has only made me “stronger” and thus “more special” then others, which is absolute pre-programmed bullshit that was only making me more emotional and abusive, which I exposed for myself through self-honesty, and anyone that can be self-honest can see how only self-deception and ego is fed with statements like this one from Elizabeth Kubler Ross.   

What is a Destonian?

I’m a destonian, and a destonian is a being that lives the principle of what’s best for all no matter what. A destonian is able to push themselves to stand in Self Honesty as a collective as who we really are as life, instead of a starting point of individualism as the mind, because the individual human is inherently flawed as a slave to brainwashing with no liveable principles of equality and thus is finite, while the collective of desteni is stable as the physical as life, as the living of equality and oneness and thus is eternal. We are beings that are willing to destroy the image of ourselves as pre-designed multiple personalities of the mind, so that we can birth ourselves as Life from the Physical, which is Lifes call to humanity. 

As Destonians we walk a process of correcting our own individual genetic code, our pre-programmed patterning of the mind which operates in Self interest in separation from and in spite of life which is Abuse. And this is why abuse is all around us within this world, such as starvation, war, rape, animal/nature slaughter - these kinds of points are only existing because we individually allow and accept this abuse within ourselves as a reflection, believing it is “just the way it is”. Which effectively is us humans saying we cannot change, so instead we humans distract ourselves from the mess existing here on Earth currently by participating in pre-programmed backchat to keep ourselves entertained with energy.

Destonians say no to this, we say that we humans can change ourselves to stop all backchat, to do what’s best for all, and that it is unacceptable to participate in pre-determined thoughts, feelings and emotions to attain energy while the physical suffers. 

The tools we use to  correct ourselves and live as the most effective beings  possible in this world are tools such as: Self – Honesty, Self – Writing, Self-Forgiveness, Common Sense, Breath application, Self-Awareness, Self – Determination, Self –Will, Self – Intimacy, Self –Trust, Physical Labour and Muscle Communication. These tools are so specific and when applied effectively these tools will assist a being to live what’s best for all in every way. And what’s nice about these tools, is that they cannot be validated to any other being, it is only through testing and living these tools for ourselves in Self Honesty where we will be able to see the effectiveness of them. It’s like what Morpheus says to Neo in the Matrix “nobody can be told what the matrix is, you have to see it for yourself”.     

Also as Destonians we realise that this current money system of capitalism that we humans allow is based in polarity, in two conflicting points of poverty and riches, where only a fight for survival is existing. It is a money system that causes obscene amounts of harm to life every moment of everyday, where we have to pay for the right to live – we have to pay for housing, we have to pay for food/water, we have to pay for education, we have to pay for healthcare in most countries, we have to pay for public transport, we have to pay for peoples benefits with our own taxed money we work for etc. At Desteni we say that is not acceptable, because regardless of whether or not we have money, all humans need to have housing, food/water, education, healthcare, and transport to be an effective functional being in this world, thus these points should be free. And capitalism says we cannot have these points unless we have money, which we need jobs for, which there are not enough of worldwide, and many jobs that are available, require an education which costs money, which many, many poor families simply cannot afford, which is why we currently have over 2 billion people living on less than £1 a day, and why 25,000+ people die of starvation everyday.

As Destonians we see the abuse that this money system causes, but we do not suggest or participate in any kind of revolutionary protesting/rioting which as the past proves only creates more suffering because it is not a solution. At desteni we realise that we are not separate from this money system, because it is equally here as we humans are, thus we cannot change this system by force, because that implies fighting ourselves to change ourselves, which can never work in a way that’s best for all, it can only create conflict as war. 

So destonians also promote a political dispensation as a solution to capitalism, an Equal Money System that provides all the basics of a dignified life that I mentioned earlier for free. And although the basics are free in an equal money system that does not mean that everything is free as many have misunderstood, because there will be a period of compulsory labour for all in an equal money system, and luxury items must still be paid for with Labour credits that people will accumulate through working. All jobs are paid the same in an Equality system so as to remove the points of competition and power over another being. So as a group, we promote the equal money system which is a system of life support, as The Solution to this money system of capitalism which is abuse of life. We utilize the Desteniiprocess as a means to open our understanding of ourselves, of Equality and Oneness with others, as well as slowly accumulating income, giving people a real product that can change their lives for the best of all, and give everyone an opportunity at eventual financial freedom, so that we can utilize our income to spearhead into politics to establish an Equal Life Party and after that an Equal Money System in the future.

So I suggest that if you have not researched Desteni to do so immediately, and to do it from an unconditional starting point with no fears, opinions and judgements to cloud your perception as desteni haters do, and I myself did when I first came across Desteni. Check out desteni.co.za, and equalmoney.org  to research and understand what Desteni proposes, then start applying and living the tools, because we are here for the abolishment of all abuse on earth and the birthing of Life equally shared for all, where Heaven on Earth will become actualized, so if that is what you want as much as we want, then join us.