“A leopard never changes its spots”

This statement I heard while I was watching an English TV series called Eastenders, where one character was explaining to their partner, that they cannot continue their relationship because they have been having sex with someone else and that “a leopard never changes its spots”. Now this statement is a commonly accepted statement in England and probably other countries, if not then every country will have a variant of this statement which will have different wording but the same implication, which is basically that - real change, is not possible for people.

So when we consider the message behind such a statement we can clearly see that it’s a very fucked up statement, which programs humans to genuinely believe that change is not possible. Because the very statement that “a leopard never changes its spots”, basically equates an individual’s brainwashing as the same as the spots that a leopard has on its body. Now obviously a leopard cannot actually change the colour of its spots, nor would a leopard even for a moment consider doing so, but then to correlate something in our minds as apparently being unchangeable like a leopards spots is actual insanity. 

Within the statement that “a leopard never changes its spots” is a justification for abuse, it is the enforcement of a belief that we humans have accepted and allowed for a long, long time which is that “once you’re a certain way you cannot possibly change” because apparently the way we allow ourselves to exist as in our minds is as unchangeable as the physical reality like a rock for instance. Then we can from this also see how this statement in essence weighs down any programming a person has, like a rock, charging systems,  to believe that our own patterning we allow, no matter how abusive is real. And when we believe our programming which exists solely in our minds is equally real as the physical which is who we really are, then there is a massive problem.

Because in actual fact our pre-programming is not real in anyway whatsoever, is not actually life in anyway whatsoever, our programming only abuses life, and only becomes physically manifested through our own allowance and acceptance that what we experience within us is real. When It is only what we experience physically that is real, not what we experience in our minds, what we experience in our minds has physical effects of participation, however the starting point of what we experience in our minds is not based in reality, because how we are programmed as the mind consciousness system only separates us from physical reality, and thus must not be supported in anyway. Our programming only controls us humans to do whatever it is that makes us feel good in self-interest, instead of taking self-responsibility to do what’s best for all in  every way possible within every here moment of breath. 

So we must reprogram ourselves to live in the physical as the physical equal and one as all that is here so that we can really change. And Destonians are the clearest example possible in this world that real change is actually possible for anyone if we have the ability to support ourselves to do so.

Saying a leopard never changes its spots is an ultimate statement of self-disempowerment to change, it’s like saying - we can’t change anything here, not at any level, inside ourselves, in our participation, or at a global level. It’s like saying we can’t change capitalism to an equal money system, so just accept things as they are currently, which is ineffective and abusive. 

However in an equal money system statements like “a leopard never changes its spots” will be commonly understood as complete bullshit by all and thus will cease to exist, because in an equal money system everyone will be assisted equally in basic monetary support to live in dignity to have the opportunity to change ourselves individually. And from that very fact of going from survival to support within money will allow everyone to realise that change is actually possible, while also the education available in an equal money system will be completely restructured to facilitate the human in actual real self-change to live what’s best for all. So in an equal money system anything that implies we cannot change ourselves will not be allowed, and will be seen as nothing more than a pointless fossil like statement of the past based in deception. So research equal money, and join desteni where we all realise real change and live real change as our self as what’s best for all in every way.   

“You Win Some and you Lose Some”

While watching a film the other day, a character said to someone after losing a bet on a sports game that “you win some and you lose some”. Now this is a statement that I have heard growing up in all different types of arenas, but every time I have heard this said it is always in relation to competition, to two forces clashing where there can only ever be a winner and a loser.

So very clearly when we look at this statement in self-honesty, we can see that is an immensely fucked up statement which actually is the basis for capitalism. It is the root cause of justifying poverty and luxury, because “you win some you lose some” so if you have a luxurious life full of money, houses, cars, investments, holidays etc – then you are a winner. And if you have no house, no food, no education, no healthcare, no transportation, then you are a loser and someone may say to you – you have a tough life “you win some you lose some”, which is like saying “you know you got the short end of the stick when you were born into this reality, but that just the way it is, I can’t do anything for you because I’m a winner and that’s the way it’s supposed to be” – very fucked up.

This statement is a way to distract from the fact that the polarity of positive and negative as winners and losers is actually completely unacceptable, because both the “positive” and the “negative” actually cause immense harm to life. Rich cannot exist without poor, positive cannot exist without negative, both equally support capitalism as the abusive state of mankind currently, and is the fundamentals of how we are each individually programmed currently according to what we have been exposed to growing up, and taught is acceptable -  that something is either good or bad, and on that basis we accept it or we don’t, and the perceived idea of what is good and bad is totally different in each person according to different environmental and family structure designs, believing we have the “free-will” to decide what’s good and bad, which is the problem, because there is no common agreement currently between all humans of what is acceptable and what is not acceptable equally – it’s all just various interpretations which gives the result of the melting pot of abuse that is currently existing here, all these personalities clashing to enforce their own opinions, their own individuality over one another to be a winner. 

“you win some you lose some” is a statement of procrastination, of pure laziness, to be able to avoid formulating solutions when we see abuse, but to simply say “that’s just the way it is, I can’t change it, you win some you lose some” Which is basically a statement that enforces the pre-programming that we are all apparently helpless to be able to change any abuse existing here on a global scale. While at Desteni we prove that it is in fact possible to take self-responsibility and correct all abuse existing here, however It’s like we humans have not yet realised that having some win while the majority lose is not acceptable in anyway, and while haves and have not’s is what is currently existing here on earth, it’s not supposed to be this way, but all humans have been extensively brainwashed to believe that it is supposed to be this way, and that we can’t change this.  

In an equal money system eventually there will be no more winners and losers polarity friction manifested all around the world. Because in an equal money system everyone is a winner, but it is not at the expense of someone else’s suffering, meaning everyone has a dignified standard of living, and all with an equal opportunity to acquire luxury, because only the best of every product will be made, and so when all are supported unconditionally from birth till death -  then what is defined as a loser as being in poverty, having no home, no food, no education, no healthcare etc, will become a thing of the past. 

Betting will also become extinct in an equal money system, because as has been said by others, gambling only exists because of the desire for money, the desire for an energetic fix of winning, and fearing the energetic low of losing - I mean when you watch some people who bet, they become like crazy, screaming, possessed monsters when the sport is on, because so much is riding on them become a winner by winning the bet. But nobody has debt in an equal money system, so nobody will have to make insane bets on sports, and it is not likely that we will have money you can hold of any form like paper money, but if we do it will only be able to be used for specific items of support, certainly not gambling, and the sports games will be completely restructured to be based in self-expression, not competition which is what we currently have, which is not acceptable.

So research and support an equal money system, realise that we can change and live what’s best for all, where we take self-responsibility to end all winners and losers in each moment, let’s walk as self-willed equals that recreate a world that is truly best for all life on earth. So that that we can break the chains of enslavement, of a polarity based capitalist system, and manifest a world of equality for all, of self-expression, self-expansion, and real factual evolution of all that is here in a way that’s best for all.

I’m with Stupid?

How we humans currently exist in separation from physical reality in our holographic minds is insane, it is pure stupidity which is all we have known. So I was listening to the radio while driving today, and at one point the radio show broadcaster said how much he enjoys t-shirts that say “I’m with stupid” on them especially when he is next to a smart person, and then he went on a rant for a few minutes basically saying that friends that are smart are annoying because they can make you look stupid very easily, and the words of a smart person make him want to fall asleep. Then he stated how he always is waiting for an opportunity to wear the t-shirt and then “get one over” his smart friend by bringing up a topic that the smart friend knows nothing about to “put the smart person in their place”, making himself feel better by purposely “outsmarting” his smart friend. This radio broadcaster said he enjoys doing this, because the last thing he wants when he is out having a drink in the pub after work is his smart friend speaking to him about educated topics that he knows nothing about - then the woman who was presenting with him fascinatingly agreed and said she knew exactly what he was talking about.

I thought this was really fucked up when I heard this, because this whole section really did expose how we humans currently as a social norm accept idiotic behaviour as something “cool”, and to be educated and informed about various points is to be apparently boring, annoying, not cool, and something that you should attack . 

It really portrays how much we humans have to learn until we realise that being ignorant, and purposely stupid is not cool in anyway whatsoever, and is literally like saying “I really don’t care about anything but my fun in self-interest, don’t distract me from my mind bubble of fun with reality”.  And as has been expressed through desteni material, to accept and allow ourselves to be ignorant, is to say we want to turn a blind eye to reality, and that we see no evil, hear no evil, because in fact we are evil, because to be ignorant is to say there is nothing wrong with the world and how we humans live, which is actually to be evil. Because it is ignorance that allows abuse to happen on such a massive scale in this reality as we currently have with rapes, wars, and starvation happening in every moment.   

Stupidity is literally eating away at this reality, it’s all from our own design, from our own allowances moment by moment like we are eating ourselves away, like a cancer that is spreading throughout everything here as a form of rotting, which eventually unless there is effective unified intervention from self-responsible humans will result in all beings on this planet being destroyed. And that is not to take as a point of fear for anyone, it is simply a matter of fact, because it is only what happens in matter that is actually relevant as reality in fact, not how we experience ourselves in relation to it. 

Statements like “I’m with stupid” are absolutely ridiculous, because it is just completely pointless, mind entertaining candy, and implying that educated, informed people are stupid is even more insane as this radio broadcaster did. Because what is happening to this world is not fun and games, but all we want to do is entertain our minds enforcing our pre-programming. And while we have so many people suffering in this world, anyone who is currently living a dignified life, and is not supporting an equal money system, is in fact stupid, because if things continue the way they are then as I have said the consequences will obviously be unimaginable for all on earth. And it is only educated, informed people that have the capacity to really care about the world changing for the better by living what’s best for all and supporting an equal money system. And those who enjoy their ignorance, enjoy indulging and solidifying their own pre-programmed separation,  living a life of self-interest are the real stupid fuckers in this world, completely unaware of the destruction that is being allowed and accepted in every moment through our participation.

In an Equal Money System statements like “I’m with stupid” will be commonly understood as unacceptable, because in an equal money system to be educated and informed will be seen as cool, and to be uneducated and uninformed will be seen as not cool. So it will be a complete switch from what we have currently in this capitalistic system. So research Equal Money System, join us at Desteni, and take Self- Responsibility to change this world in way that is best for all no matter what, so all that are here currently, and all those that will be born in the future can live in dignity and with real actualized peace on earth.

Inequality Costs

The majority starve in this world, while many like myself live in dignity and luxury, which comes at a cost, the cost is the abuse of so much life in this world, because inequality costs, you cannot have the rich exist without the poor, you can’t have positive without the negative, both are intrinsically intertwined as the same point of inequality as polarity. That’s why at desteni we say equal money system, because in an equal money system there is no rich and poor, there is only what’s best for all, where everyone is afforded dignity and luxury, and it doesn’t come at a cost of someone else having to suffer for it.

So recently I have had to stop my DIP payments currently, due to miscalculating some monetary outgoings in relation to a new car, and an overdraft function on a bank account. It’s very interesting to look at the point of miscalculating a point, where we forget something, or we don’t pay full attention to something, or we rush something for instance. Because these points always shows us that we are not completely aware within and as breath here, in complete understanding of what is happening in our world and our reality, but that we are being controlled by some facet of a pre-programmed system design within our minds that separates us from physical reality. 

So in relation to the car, my ineffective filling in of the application form for the insurance on the car that has cost me a lot money. So a management meeting at work overran by about an hour and a half, which I could do nothing about, what I can do something about is correct any reactions that come up in relation to this. 

However towards the end of the meeting, I started getting thoughts come up along the line of “this is going on way too long, its fucking up my schedule for the day”,  then instead of breathing  releasing this thought and simply restructuring my schedule for the day practically -  I basically allowed myself to project into the future, and I began fearing doing paperwork past 11pm, then I began to fear not having enough time to do everything, so I began to rush through the rest of my schedule for the day to avoid doing paperwork past 11pm. And my “determination” to get my schedule for the day done I can see now was only revealing the enforcement of my ego, to believe in my mind that “I’m behind schedule but I don’t need to restructure the remainder of my schedule, I can get it done, I’m effective, I can handle these points” etc. 

So while rushing being controlled by this fear of time after the meeting, it’s like every remaining point for the day became like this obstacle in my mind that “I must rush through” so that I can achieve the goal of completing all the tasks for the day, which again is just a point of ego, so that I can say to myself in my mind – “well done marley you were really effective you got lots of points corrected today”. And after going to the bank to pay child support, taking in my teams results, calculating wages, doing food shopping, hovering, shaving, having a shower, laying out next week’s work schedule, walking the dogs, feeding the dogs, washing up, I had some more paperwork to do for work, and I also wanted to complete my car insurance application, which I could have left to the next day, which would have been more practical to do so, but because I allowed myself to be controlled by this fear of time, which in essence is simply fear of self, fear of death, I rushed the application form submitted it for a quote which came out at £800 which I was happy with. 

However the next day  before I called the insurance company to verify the quote,  I decided to check the details I had filled in, because I remembered how much I was allowing myself to rush though most tasks the day before. Then at one question it said “any previous convictions not related to driving?” which I had left as a no, which is not true for me, as I have had multiple convictions in my life, so once I changed the answer to yes and refreshed the quote, it jumped up from £800 to £1200 from that one simple miscalculation, fascinating.  Now this miscalculation only happened due to allowing myself to be controlled by fear of time, by my programming, due to me not being fully aware here as breath, standing equal as this application form as myself where I take on every point within this application form specifically detailed in accordance with what is required to complete the form effectively. So this is a cool example of how inequality can literally cost us money, simply through allowing ourselves to be controlled by thoughts, feelings and emotions, not standing equal as the physical as who we really are.

Also the problem I had with a specific bank account building over £1000 overdraft debt again has only happened through my miscalculation of points, allowing myself to be controlled by my programming. So because I haven’t been using the account for a while, I allowed myself to push the account to the back of my mind, purposely disregarding the account, focusing only on the accounts that I actually use every week. And so because I allowed myself to judge this one account as inferior in my mind to my other accounts, believing it had no money in it, I was totally unaware that the account had an overdraft function on it, and that this account was over its agreed overdraft limit of £250, and that for over 3-4 months the account has been accumulating a £6 a day overdraft debt, which has now been brought to my attention by a different account being frozen until I start making payments to clear the debt which I have started. 

So fascinating, because this debt on this bank account has only built up, because of not treating all of my bank accounts equally, taking into consideration every penny that is in every  account, every detail of each account status,  every function of each account. 

We humans with dignified lives tend to blame something else when we get into situations of monetary debt, when very often it has only happened through our own miscalculations of our outgoings, overspending on something, forgetting to pay something on time etc. Basically not considering the fact that we live in a debt based capitalist society here currently , that within not standing equal to our outgoings, being aware of every penny we spend, then there will inevitably be a cost for not considering that which must be paid, or will result in more debt, less dignity, more crime, more prison etc.

So I do not allow myself to blame anything or anyone for this slight monetary situation I am in, I take full self-responsibility to correct this situation and ultimately to correct the cause of this debt which is my own allowance to be controlled by my programming. I do not allow myself to hide away from what I have created for myself, I realise and understand in self-honesty that unless I correct this now, then inevitably I will make the same “mistakes” again in the future, which could have much more serious consequential monetary losses.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to experience the thought that “this is going on way too long, its fucking up my schedule for the day” in relation to a meeting that overran.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to blame this overrunning meeting for allowing myself to fear time.

I forgive myself that I did not realise in the moment that by blaming something or someone else for what I am experiencing in side myself, is basically to say that I am not responsible for myself which is bullshit.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to not take full responsibility for myself in every moment.

I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to not simply breathe and restructure my schedule for the day in accordance with the overrunning meeting, but instead feeding my ego believing that “I must get my tasks done”.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to not consider in the moment, that by putting pressure on myself to complete an impractical amount of tasks for the day, that I am simply feeding and standing as the ego.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to stand as and feed the ego through trying to do more than I am able to do in one breath.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to believe in my mind that I should not have to restructure my schedule, which is basically to say that I don’t have to change my schedule according to what has happened during my day.  

I forgive myself that I did not realise in the moment that by forcing myself more tasks then I am able to practically do in a day is self-abuse.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to project into the future, and see a picture of myself still doing paperwork past 11pm.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to fear running out of time and thus trying to justify in my mind rushing through tasks.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to justify rushing through tasks because of fearing running out of time.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to define myself according to this fear of time through allowing it in the first place.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to separate myself from physical reality through allowing myself to be controlled by the fear of time.

I forgive myself that I did not realise in the moment that by fearing running out of time, I am actually only fearing myself, which is unacceptable.

I forgive myself that I did not realise in the moment that by fearing running out of time, I am in essence only fearing death, which of course cannot be avoided, so is completely pointless to fear. 

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to believe that me being determined to get my schedule for the day completed is valid, when in fact if it is not practical then it is simply ego.

I forgive myself that I did not realise in the moment that my “determination” to get my tasks done is simply ego allowing myself to be defined and controlled by the ego.

I forgive myself that I have allowed myself to be defined and controlled by the ego in my mind as a “determination” to get my schedule done. 

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to believe that I am effective enough to get many points completed in a day because I’m a destonian.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to believe that because I’m a destonian then I can do more than someone who’s not a destonian, placing an unnecessary connotation on a destonian.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to believe that destonians are “more than human” in some way and so can handle multiple points in a day, even when behind schedule.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to place a superior value on destonians as something more than anyone else, which is insane, because destonian or not, we are all bound to the limitations of this reality, we are all subject to an unequal money system, and we all can only do what we can do in one breath.

I forgive myself that I have not realised that each destonian is simply a human like any other, and is not special in anyway, but simply lives practically in a way that’s best for all.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to justify rushing through points because I’m a destonian, which is actually contrary to a what a destonain is, because a destonian is specific in detail of manifesting what’s best for all, not attempting to rush what’s best for all.

I forgive myself that I did not realise in the moment that rushing a point, just to get energy of “well done marley very effective” is not best for all at all, it is only ego. 

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to attempt to get energy from completing my schedule for the day to feed my ego. 

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to not stand equal as my car insurance application as myself completing the form in maximum possible detail, but to separate myself from the application through fearing time and thus rushing completing it ineffectively.

I forgive myself that I did not realise in the moment that by rushing any task that requires to be done, I am only ensuring that a specific detail is missed; only ensuring that the task is not done effectively but rather quickly. 

I forgive myself that I accepted and allowed myself to be consumed by this fear of time while filling in my application form which resulted in an ineffective result which only cost me more money. 

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to place more value on bank accounts that have money in them, that I use regularly, and purposely disregard one account.

I forgive myself that I have defined some bank accounts as more important than others based on how much money is in them.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to disregard one account as less then another, when in fact all bank accounts are equal as bank accounts and thus are of equal value.

I forgive myself that I did not realise in the moment here as breathe, that by disregarding one bank account I am only disregarding myself.

I forgive myself that I did not realise in the moment that by disregarding something as less then, that there will always be a consequential price to pay for such inequality allowed, which for me here was over £1000 overdraft debt.

I forgive myself that I have not stood equal and one as all my bank accounts, as all are equal as me as this one physical reality.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to separate from who I really am as breath as life, through thinking in my mind that some bank accounts are more important than others, which is like saying some parts of physical reality are more important than others which is separation that is completely unacceptable.

So I understand and realise that it is completely unacceptable to allow myself to blame something or someone else for any reaction I experience in side myself. I realise that it is not acceptable to fear time in anyway as it is only me fearing myself, fearing death, it is separation that only leads to rushing myself, which of course only leads to tasks being completed ineffectively, which is not acceptable. I realise that it is completely unacceptable to believe in my mind that I can handle any amount of workload in a day because I’m a destonian which is just feeding ego, and is abuse of my physical body, and is actually completely contrary to how a destonian lives which is practically here as breath completing what requires to be done in one breath, not attempting to do more than what is practical in one breath which is only ego. I realise and understand that it’s not acceptable in any way to place extra value on any part of this one physical reality, because this extra value I’m placing on the physical in my mind is not real - reality is real, not my interpretation of it, so all are equal in fact.

I will not accept any less than what is best for all in my life as self-honesty, so when a situation comes up at work where i may start blaming work for affecting my schedule and why I’m having reactions, such as an overrunning meeting, then I stop, I breathe, I do not allow myself to be controlled by this separation, instead I direct myself within and as breath which is best for all.

Whenever I am behind on tasks for the day, then I stop, I breathe, and I direct myself within and as breath, I do not allow myself to separate myself from here by going into any fear of time in my mind, I do not allow myself to rush, I simply restructure my schedule accordingly.

Whenever I react to a schedule, and start believing in my mind that I can complete the schedule just because I’m a destonian, then I stop, I breathe, I direct myself within nan d as breath, I look at the schedule practically here, I do not allow myself to feed my ego forcing myself to complete it, if it is practical to do so, then I complete it, but if it’s not practical, then i simply breathe and restructure the schedule in a way that’s practically best for all.

Whenever I react to something like bank accounts, and I can see that I’m clearly placing  extra value on one account over another, then I stop myself in the moment, flag myself and breathe, I continue to breathe directing myself here. I do not allow myself to separate one bank account from another; I do not allow myself to separate one part of this physical reality from another, I simply breathe and walk.