“I’m having a Blond moment”

So somebody I know made a mistake in a calculation, and she said to me “I’m just having a blond moment marley”, and immediately I realised this statement is a complete bullshit self-definition that many females define themselves according to in this world. I have heard this many times at different points in my life growing up in England, and it is clear that this statement that – “I’m having a blond moment” is a complete limitation of self as the mind, and a justification as to why a person is not understanding how a point practically operates. It’s not necessary in anyway whatsoever, but it’s used by some women as an excuse as to why they are not understanding something. So it’s used like a kind of defence mechanism to justify mistakes and stupidity, through saying I’m just having a blond moment, so basically take it easy on me, understand and accept the fact that I am just prone to making mistakes because I’m blond.

When in actual fact, this statement is not actually based in reality whatsoever, because the colour of hair obviously makes no difference to our ability to do anything. To make a mistake, forget something, or be clumsy for example has nothing to do with our hair colour, it is a simple miscalculation of a point through not being here present as the breath, and to say that hair colour plays a factor in making miscalculations is literal insanity. To say it’s possible to have a “blond moment” where there is only misunderstanding, is to basically say your defining yourself, and blond women in general as slightly more stupid then any other human being which is ridiculous.

A statement like this is based in an idea that apparently many blond women are the same as women that are involved in the sex industry like playboy, where the women involved in playboy, very often will have blond hair, and will not have an effective education or much of an insight outside of pre-programming because of focusing so much on sex and believing its cool to have no insight or care for being educated. To say you’re having a blond moment is to say that you’re not breathing, it is saying that you believe that some blond women are just dumb and that’s just the way it is, unchangeable, trapped in the past.

And it’s interesting when we look at society in general, because it’s easy to notice for example how many “comedy” films are made that will have a blond female character in it that is purposely presented as a person that is always making mistakes, misunderstanding things, is always utilizing sexual manipulation of others, and will be chased by men for sex, which feeds into this whole “blond moment” program. Films like Scary Movie, House Bunny, Clueless, St.Trinians, Romy & Michelle's High School Reunion, Mean Girls, Legally Blonde and many, many more clearly show this programming, this idea that blond women apparently are essentially going to make a lot of mistakes, will only be interested in hair, make up, partying, boys etc, and are sexual tools for men, which is completely unacceptable, so from my perspective films like these should not be accepted and allowed to be made.

It’s completely insane that this stereotype of blond women as dumb, sexual objects is allowed to exist in anyway whatsoever. Fascinating that this point has been existing in media for ages, from Paris Hilton, to Marilyn Monroe and others before her, these celebrities have fuelled this stereotype of blond women which has been accepted and allowed by us humans.  I have noticed that many women in the world have been programmed by the media and society in general to actually consider having no intelligence as something cool, something that is fun to do, that you should just make yourself look like a manufactured plastic doll, and utilize sex to get what you want. And many men will find this cool aswel, accepting this program because of knowing how easy it is to have sex with a woman that has little intelligence, and dresses like a prostitute. 

These so called “Blond moments” should be banned, they are only existing in our minds through our allowance, meaning not real at all, only promoting abuse, and should thus not be supported by anyone in anyway whatsoever. And in an equal money system everyone will eventually be educated to a set standard which will be to the highest standards possible, therefore nobody will support acts of stupidity or justifications of acts of stupidity as something “cool”. 

What will be recognized as cool will be self-expansion, accumulating new information that’s best for all, standing equal to the information, storing the information as knowledge through physical application, and thus living as more effective beings. Brainwashing will be reversed in an equal money system, because to be the most effective human possible will be what’s considered cool. What’s considered cool now by many in capitalism such as a “blond moment”, which justifies stupidity, will in an equal money system be considered completely pointless to allow because it doesn’t promote self-expression or self-change of the human, it only promotes continuation of the past enslaved to memory as a self-limiting definition, so let’s end all “blond moments” with an equal money system.        

"Bigger is better?"

Fascinating, I’ve heard people say this statement so many times growing up, which for most of my life I have believed,  until I started walking a process of self-correction to live what’s best for all. I can remember so many instances in my life where I have made a decision based on what is the “biggest”, because of believing and being defined by this pre-programming that “bigger is better”.  

The whole idea in my mind of what is “my favourite”  something, the starting point of why I liked a particular thing, has so many times been based on something’s physical size. whether it has been muscles, clothing, jewellery, cars, food, toys, TVs, animals, ornaments, etc., I mean the list could go on and on of the amount of things in my life that I have defined in my mind as “better” then something else because it is bigger, which is complete self-deception. 

For example I very often used to wear clothes that were massively oversized because in my mind “bigger was better” but this was the first time in my life that I exposed this statement as being not real. Because after a while I realised that having massively oversized clothes is just not practical because it can catch on things, it’s a waste of material, and all I actually require is clothes that fit me, that support my body practically here, and will not affect my ability to participate effectively in any task or activity. 

So after exposing this one point in my life I started looking at where else in my life was I placing value on “big things”, and I started noticing that I had allowed so much value on a lot of points purely because of something’s size. There are many layers to this point within me of placing value on something due to its size, so I still have points to correct in relation to “bigger is better” as I am not fully clear. 

So many points I remember in relation to believing “bigger is better” for example I remember when I used to be in a gang, that how we would reference various gang members, or a person with a lot of money, would be the statement “big man” and whenever someone outside of the gang asked any gang member what we are doing, we very often would say we are doing “big things”. Then at this stage I remember majority of females that hanged around the gang would often have big hair, big high heels, big eyelashes, big amount of makeup, big breasts etc. Lol this “bigger is better” point is fascinating.

It certainly is interesting in general how we humans have been programmed growing up to be more attracted to bigger sized things, it seems to permeate every area of society as manifested ego. Always attempting to project our self as more then who we really are here as life, utilizing multiple items to enhance a pre-programmed belief that we are powerful when we have multiple “big items” as an extension of our personality. Some items however genuinely are more practical than others based on size, for example 4x4 cars do offer the most effective support for the body because of their size and efficiency of design. 

So we humans have clearly been programmed to believe that we must choose something bigger, that we have more relevance, more strength, more respect, and more safety whenever we attain something that is bigger than an alternative. Which tells us that we humans have a massive inferiority problem currently, where we believe we are weak without “big things”, that it is a weakness to be living here as breathe, without something else outside of ourselves to validate us into an apparent position of strength that is only existing in our minds and thus is not real.

This would explain why majority of people in this world attack desteni, blaming what we say for why a person is reacting to us. Because what we speak about at desteni, is received by people and most people allow themselves to become resonantly mind possessed and attack the group. Most people are so afraid of letting go of all the points that define them, because through being defined we humans have been taught that we are strong, when in fact we are simply existing in separation from who we really are here as life.

So in an equal money system it will interesting because this social conditioning of believing that “bigger is better” will be exposed.   Because at the end of the day size has nothing to do with anything being more effective, it simply comes down to practicality, what is most effective to support what’s best for all. 

In an equal money system eventually after the initial stages, most people will not be interested in projecting themselves as more then another through this “bigger is better” belief, because everyone will have luxury, so nobody will be able to show off to another how much more luxury stuff they have, because everyone will have the equal opportunity to attain luxury and “big” items. 

In a system of equality each being is supported to understand in every moment that we are all equal in fact simply through the very fact of everyone having the same amount of money. Because within everyone having the same amount of money, then everyone becomes equally big in every way, so we must do all we can to support and manifest the change of this current monetary system of abuse to an equal money system from within and out.

“Boys don’t cry”

So I was watching a film called “boys don’t cry” and at one point in the film they play a famous music track by the cure called boys don’t cry. I found this interesting because it is a clear pre-programming which we learn growing up that males are apparently “not allowed” to cry, because apparently it is only acceptable for females to cry, which is complete bullshit, because whether we are male or female it makes no difference we are all able to cry actual tears.

Sub-consciously this social conditioning, this brainwashing affects young boys extensively as they grow up, because a separation as a polarity is seeded within the child, where the child believes that to be a boy and cry is “bad” and to not cry is “good” and then will define themselves according to this belief. So then the ego manifests as this point starts happening where by teenage years, the young boy will always attempt to project the position of a “strong” male to others, and in most cases will do all they can to avoid others see them crying which is defined as a position of weakness or something that only females can do, because after all boys don’t cry apparently. 

For example I remember being at school, and at any stage of school, no matter at what stage, it was always the boys that cried the most, that got bullied the most because everyone defined them as weak and thus some actually attacked them physically, which I have done before, standing as the position of a bully because of reacting to someone displaying some point that I defined as weak so that I could attack them to get energy. And what is interesting is that everyone has cried tears before, some do it openly, and some mainly males keep it a secret, but it’s always the ones that cry openly that get attacked the most by other kids at school and this can continue right through into adulthood. 

And obviously then young boys growing up that have cried a lot and been bullied a lot, will inevitably define themselves as weak, as a position of inferiority, and unless there is an effective self-correction of this point then this boy will grow up into adulthood, and will live the rest of his life believing that emotions are so immovable, that they simply cry a lot can’t do anything about it and thus must be a victim to others, as a point of self-victimization.  

From my experience crying only happens when participating and charging backchat thoughts that were triggered by a particular event, person, place etc into “strong” feelings and emotions that I then defined as myself as a memory. In my life tears have always been mainly connected to charged thoughts in relation to children suffering, the family construct and the love construct. However through applying specific self-forgiveness and continually breathing through reactions that come up in a particular situation, I have proven to myself that points of crying can be stopped completely. 

Crying can also obviously happen in moments of excruciating pain, which is interesting because that is different type of tears, it’s not like mind possessed emotional crying based in consciousness which isn’t real, crying from physical pain is like real crying, where the pain is overriding brainwashing, its tears that have only manifested from what is happening here physically, not based in memory in the mind.

 

And in an equal money system schools and children’s education will be corrected to become effective, so undoubtedly there will be a lesson and a general understanding that will focus children on understanding thoughts, feelings and emotions. Which in turn will give children an understanding of reactions such as crying, that we all have done it, that we are not weaker or stronger than anyone else for crying or not crying, and along with being taught about the principles of equality, as well as other systems being put in place to stop abuse, then bullying in schools will eventually cease to exist.

In a system of equality crying is not judged, and thus not supressed when it comes up, instead crying becomes a point of support to be able to dig into why the tears are even happening, to see what thoughts, memories, beliefs, fears, feelings, emotions are connected. Which then in turn empowers ourselves to realise our own brainwashing and take action to release the past with self-corrective application, so that the next time this person is in a situation that would have once made them cry, then they simply do not react and thus do not cry. So an equal money system gives everyone the opportunity to correct mental relationships allowed that create dishonest tears, so that only real tears remain.    

“I still think Positive, because in “Life” God takes, God gives”

So I was listening to a hip hop track earlier, and the last line the rapper said in the track was “I still think positive, because in life god take gods gives”. When we slow down and have a look at this statement we can see that it is a ridiculous statement, very abusive, complete self-deception, because such a statement is what many religious people in this world use as a justification to validate the existence of poverty, abdicating our own responsibility. 

It’s this general idea that god gives and takes, which is manifest in how our money system operates which takes from many and gives to a few. Many religious people will claim that suffering in this world is all part of “gods plan”, and thus we shouldn’t question abuse, or attempt to find workable solutions to abuse, because its apparently all up to god, and who can possibly question god? Well belief aside, humans with a lot of money often believe they are god, because it’s clear that no one can question the power of money to facilitate our plans, which one could call gods plan, the pre-programming that we must beat the competition, make a lot of money to use in self-interest, pass on our seed, job done, and then we are apparently god lol, how fucked up.  

This pre-designed idea that we must not create solutions that will actually correct suffering with our hands, but instead we should simply think “positive”, because in thinking positive in our heads, we apparently are doing all we can to help the world change for the better, and then Jesus and god will do the rest. This statement that “I still think positive, because in life god takes, gods gives” simply enforces our starting point of separation, and feeds into the polarity based money system in operation here.

Focusing on positivity is simply to turn a blind eye to abuse, and to only ensure that the negative as rape, war and starvation is created in this world. Focusing on positivity is just a mechanism in our mind to distract us and as a projected lotion for guilt, to make us feel better about the fact that we have while so many others do not have. When in fact thinking “positive” is a massive problem for us humans, whether it’s major religious ideologies or new age spiritualty, it makes no difference, because anything that only entertains our mind is not actually real, and thus not best for all, as it clearly offers no actual real physical solutions to stop abuse happening on earth.

Thinking positive only enforces mankind’s starting point of ego, where we feel we actually know something relevant as some great knowledgeable “god like” beings, that we can see the future, stay rich, see the afterlife, sort out the worlds problems, all with positive thought, it’s absolutely insane. When in fact we humans know nothing, all we know is what we have learned, which is to spite another to win first in self-interest, I mean we have no idea how deluded we are, and there is clearly nothing god like about us humans currently no matter how hard we convince ourselves we are “good” and “god like”. No amount of positive thinking can change the fact that what we humans allow on this planet currently is an abomination of abuse, because of existing as this abuse inside ourselves. No amount of positive thinking can change the fact that this world requires real practical solutions to create what’s best for all, which is not offered in any religion, spiritual philosophy or variant money systems of the past or present such as communism and Marxism.  

Regardless of what anyone believes about god and religion, the fact is Money is actually the god of this reality through our allowance, and through our allowance it is a tyrannical god, a god that takes from so many that suffer, live on the streets, have no money, starve, and at the same time give to a few that live in extreme luxury creating our own little heavens based in horror off the backs of those that suffer.

Rich can only exist while poor exists, they are two ends of the same stick of polarity which can only possibly create abuse, and thus must be definitively ended for all life to express. It’s time that we humans grow up and realise that aslong as there is those with nothing and those with too much, then life cannot exist on this planet, only systems, systems creating energy to abuse, systems of abuse. 

The solution is here proposed by desteni group, as an equal money system, a system that provides for all a dignified living for free from birth till death. Equal money is a system that allows all to live life so we can all expand, and can work together to create heaven on earth, equal money is the first practical step. 

So let’s end this pointless “positive thinking”, this hoping for a saviour, this turning a blind eye to abuse, lets end this system of capitalism, a system that gives and takes without a care of what’s best for all, because within that no life can be lived. In a system of world equality, none will be taken from, except those that already have too much, all will be given to, equally, and thus all receive equally, because within that life is lived for all, which is best for all. An equal money system is a money system that’s cares for everyone, a god that looks after all its children equally, so make the decision to support an equal money system, and let’s cleanse this world from within one by one until it’s done.     

“I never get stressed”

So it was fascinating when I was discussing some company changes with my boss, and I asked him how he is managing with the extra workload since the company has become much more specific in its regulations and adhering to government standards for a solar company. 

He said that he has no problem with the extra workload, and that he never gets stressed. I found this statement interesting, because I have often in the past believed this idea that I am unaffected by problems, and I don’t experience stress in anyway. Now my boss at work is into a lot of esoteric nonsense about “positive attitude” and “think it into reality” lots of law of attraction based ideologies.

However in self-honesty, I myself know that I have experienced stress at times when I react to something involving time, where I have miscalculated a timeframe to get something done, and then experiencing anxiety about time, which then results in me attempting to do too many things at once in a rush. And I have also experienced stress when there is a lot of extra work for the day, something that happens unexpectedly which results in me having to do more work then I initially expected, then I have experienced myself as stressed for a moment.

However I do not allow myself to get consumed by stress, feeding into the backchat thoughts, and with continuous application of Breath I stand as the task that needs to be corrected and remain as the point of stability here, directive, able to complete what needs to be done practically, without reacting adding mental relationships physically experienced as stress.

It’s clear that when people make claims that they never experience stress, they are only speaking from a situation of comfort ability, because if you have a look at this statement you can clearly see that this idea “I never experience stress” is only made possible through money, and is from a starting point of ego, projecting stability to others, when this perceived stability is only made possible with money. With money we humans like to think we are gods, believing we have special abilities to “rise above” the abuse in this world, that we are “better than” another without money, pretending to not be affected by the world, or interested in finding solutions to end all suffering as long as we have our support in self-interest, which is a fucked up idea - claiming Jesus but living monsters.

When money is removed from our lives then this statement “I never get stressed” is immediately exposed, with no money in this elitist money system of capitalism, then there is no possibility to avoid, stress and annoyance, it’s very difficult to distract or pretend that one is not experiencing stress and annoyance when one has no money. 

And that is what we humans are busy doing, trying to distract ourselves from the stress and annoyance of so many people in the world that suffer, through the use of entertainment in self-interest, feeding into the polarity of haves and have not’s. It is unacceptable in every way the amount of suffering that is existing in this world, which we simply turn a blind eye too, as long as we have our support, then it’s like fuck anyone else, I will kick down the poor a few crumbs a month to charities in guilt, but I won’t try and implement a system of equality to stop the very existence of charities.

 

This is why this world requires a political solution that is best for all in every way, a system that will not allow for the existence of “some with support – most without support” because all are supported equally. The solution is here, it is an Equal Money System where the right to life is afforded to every being on this planet, a new born system of expression not suppression, where everyone can finally enjoy life equally, which is real progress, as an actual lived evolution. An equal money system allows for everybody to make statements like “I don’t get stressed” because the fight to survive is removed for everybody, and the right to life is enjoyed for everybody. So research and join In the drive for a new world here: http://equalmoney.org