“You Win Some and you Lose Some”

While watching a film the other day, a character said to someone after losing a bet on a sports game that “you win some and you lose some”. Now this is a statement that I have heard growing up in all different types of arenas, but every time I have heard this said it is always in relation to competition, to two forces clashing where there can only ever be a winner and a loser.

So very clearly when we look at this statement in self-honesty, we can see that is an immensely fucked up statement which actually is the basis for capitalism. It is the root cause of justifying poverty and luxury, because “you win some you lose some” so if you have a luxurious life full of money, houses, cars, investments, holidays etc – then you are a winner. And if you have no house, no food, no education, no healthcare, no transportation, then you are a loser and someone may say to you – you have a tough life “you win some you lose some”, which is like saying “you know you got the short end of the stick when you were born into this reality, but that just the way it is, I can’t do anything for you because I’m a winner and that’s the way it’s supposed to be” – very fucked up.

This statement is a way to distract from the fact that the polarity of positive and negative as winners and losers is actually completely unacceptable, because both the “positive” and the “negative” actually cause immense harm to life. Rich cannot exist without poor, positive cannot exist without negative, both equally support capitalism as the abusive state of mankind currently, and is the fundamentals of how we are each individually programmed currently according to what we have been exposed to growing up, and taught is acceptable -  that something is either good or bad, and on that basis we accept it or we don’t, and the perceived idea of what is good and bad is totally different in each person according to different environmental and family structure designs, believing we have the “free-will” to decide what’s good and bad, which is the problem, because there is no common agreement currently between all humans of what is acceptable and what is not acceptable equally – it’s all just various interpretations which gives the result of the melting pot of abuse that is currently existing here, all these personalities clashing to enforce their own opinions, their own individuality over one another to be a winner. 

“you win some you lose some” is a statement of procrastination, of pure laziness, to be able to avoid formulating solutions when we see abuse, but to simply say “that’s just the way it is, I can’t change it, you win some you lose some” Which is basically a statement that enforces the pre-programming that we are all apparently helpless to be able to change any abuse existing here on a global scale. While at Desteni we prove that it is in fact possible to take self-responsibility and correct all abuse existing here, however It’s like we humans have not yet realised that having some win while the majority lose is not acceptable in anyway, and while haves and have not’s is what is currently existing here on earth, it’s not supposed to be this way, but all humans have been extensively brainwashed to believe that it is supposed to be this way, and that we can’t change this.  

In an equal money system eventually there will be no more winners and losers polarity friction manifested all around the world. Because in an equal money system everyone is a winner, but it is not at the expense of someone else’s suffering, meaning everyone has a dignified standard of living, and all with an equal opportunity to acquire luxury, because only the best of every product will be made, and so when all are supported unconditionally from birth till death -  then what is defined as a loser as being in poverty, having no home, no food, no education, no healthcare etc, will become a thing of the past. 

Betting will also become extinct in an equal money system, because as has been said by others, gambling only exists because of the desire for money, the desire for an energetic fix of winning, and fearing the energetic low of losing - I mean when you watch some people who bet, they become like crazy, screaming, possessed monsters when the sport is on, because so much is riding on them become a winner by winning the bet. But nobody has debt in an equal money system, so nobody will have to make insane bets on sports, and it is not likely that we will have money you can hold of any form like paper money, but if we do it will only be able to be used for specific items of support, certainly not gambling, and the sports games will be completely restructured to be based in self-expression, not competition which is what we currently have, which is not acceptable.

So research and support an equal money system, realise that we can change and live what’s best for all, where we take self-responsibility to end all winners and losers in each moment, let’s walk as self-willed equals that recreate a world that is truly best for all life on earth. So that that we can break the chains of enslavement, of a polarity based capitalist system, and manifest a world of equality for all, of self-expression, self-expansion, and real factual evolution of all that is here in a way that’s best for all.