“Boys don’t cry”

So I was watching a film called “boys don’t cry” and at one point in the film they play a famous music track by the cure called boys don’t cry. I found this interesting because it is a clear pre-programming which we learn growing up that males are apparently “not allowed” to cry, because apparently it is only acceptable for females to cry, which is complete bullshit, because whether we are male or female it makes no difference we are all able to cry actual tears.

Sub-consciously this social conditioning, this brainwashing affects young boys extensively as they grow up, because a separation as a polarity is seeded within the child, where the child believes that to be a boy and cry is “bad” and to not cry is “good” and then will define themselves according to this belief. So then the ego manifests as this point starts happening where by teenage years, the young boy will always attempt to project the position of a “strong” male to others, and in most cases will do all they can to avoid others see them crying which is defined as a position of weakness or something that only females can do, because after all boys don’t cry apparently. 

For example I remember being at school, and at any stage of school, no matter at what stage, it was always the boys that cried the most, that got bullied the most because everyone defined them as weak and thus some actually attacked them physically, which I have done before, standing as the position of a bully because of reacting to someone displaying some point that I defined as weak so that I could attack them to get energy. And what is interesting is that everyone has cried tears before, some do it openly, and some mainly males keep it a secret, but it’s always the ones that cry openly that get attacked the most by other kids at school and this can continue right through into adulthood. 

And obviously then young boys growing up that have cried a lot and been bullied a lot, will inevitably define themselves as weak, as a position of inferiority, and unless there is an effective self-correction of this point then this boy will grow up into adulthood, and will live the rest of his life believing that emotions are so immovable, that they simply cry a lot can’t do anything about it and thus must be a victim to others, as a point of self-victimization.  

From my experience crying only happens when participating and charging backchat thoughts that were triggered by a particular event, person, place etc into “strong” feelings and emotions that I then defined as myself as a memory. In my life tears have always been mainly connected to charged thoughts in relation to children suffering, the family construct and the love construct. However through applying specific self-forgiveness and continually breathing through reactions that come up in a particular situation, I have proven to myself that points of crying can be stopped completely. 

Crying can also obviously happen in moments of excruciating pain, which is interesting because that is different type of tears, it’s not like mind possessed emotional crying based in consciousness which isn’t real, crying from physical pain is like real crying, where the pain is overriding brainwashing, its tears that have only manifested from what is happening here physically, not based in memory in the mind.

 

And in an equal money system schools and children’s education will be corrected to become effective, so undoubtedly there will be a lesson and a general understanding that will focus children on understanding thoughts, feelings and emotions. Which in turn will give children an understanding of reactions such as crying, that we all have done it, that we are not weaker or stronger than anyone else for crying or not crying, and along with being taught about the principles of equality, as well as other systems being put in place to stop abuse, then bullying in schools will eventually cease to exist.

In a system of equality crying is not judged, and thus not supressed when it comes up, instead crying becomes a point of support to be able to dig into why the tears are even happening, to see what thoughts, memories, beliefs, fears, feelings, emotions are connected. Which then in turn empowers ourselves to realise our own brainwashing and take action to release the past with self-corrective application, so that the next time this person is in a situation that would have once made them cry, then they simply do not react and thus do not cry. So an equal money system gives everyone the opportunity to correct mental relationships allowed that create dishonest tears, so that only real tears remain.